Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Limits you have...

Why do we have limits?
    I was taught several things from my childhood that were not logically convincing me but I used to absorb those assuming that elder say everything right. Starting from birth people including parents try their best to teach you everything in their way and to turn you in man bounded with the same limits as their parents did to them.
   At very early age they tell you about ghost or some demon and make you feared of many things like darkness, strangers. That is the first time you start having limits in your life. As you grow up, you enhance many limits to be a social man. Many times, limits inherited from society and parents are illogical and funny. Limits that we gain from different systems like school , religion , language , culture , region , caste and quota are mostly created by a group of wise people who don't have limits but have benefit from people who feel these limits as need of life.
   In school, teacher beats you. This make a limit of interaction with teachers. They teach you to respect elders and not to argue them but who can guarantee that every elder we come across worth respect and have enough capabilities that he is never wrong to argue. Limits created by schools varies as the type of school like  missionary based schools, RSS based schools and madarsas. Language create different types of limits. I watched telugu movies. I observed that villein are characterized speaking hindi. Religion gives you limits the most and gives you the most foolish reasons for those.
      Thus, on the basis of where you are born and interaction level to different people and groups you get bounded with different types of limits and you don't even get a clue that you are trapped in limits. You can't think and act out of those limits.
    Now, There are different groups of people whom limits matches and they starts disliking people who are not in the limits they follow. This is how hatred created in human race that might cause war, dispute and many severe bad results.
   So, don't follow limits created by other human until it looks logical to you. Thus limits will be your own limits in the natural way it should be. Fear is the key factor that is been used to create limits. A fearless person will never have any limits. These limits creates non-uniformity in human race. So, all should have same limits and that limit should be limitless.

2 comments:

  1. thats really real what u said........i think this is what everyone has experienced from the childhood......
    but the thing is how we take these limits... and upto what limit...

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  2. good post! forced me to think for a while ! but ,
    //So, don't follow limits created by other human until it looks logical to you. // I am partially agree with this ! as u said abt "logical " , who will define what is logical and what is illogical ?In west doing " nude party " is as logical as its illogical in india ! indian women wear sari , its immodest in west , because showing belly is illogical in west ! so , what i feel is every society sets particular rules ,particular limits according conditions , environment ! albeit they may look like of ties but ultimate motivation behind them is to make society like every one can live with peace ( and here peace stands for equal share of peace to every one , not for single one ;) ) ! think what will happen if every one make his own limit !

    ///Now, There are different groups of people whom limits matches and they starts disliking people who are not in the limits they follow./// i appreciate the thought !;)

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